second chances..they dont ever matter, people never change.

Why is it that we feel the need to give people we're in relationships with, or lack there of, the benefit of the doubt, not once, not twice, but several times. Not only do we give them the benefit of the doubt, but in some cases, we make excuses for them.
No matter how many times they screw up, or let you down, or hurt you....most of the time, we're willing to put all of that behind us and set ourselves up for failure yet again. I understand we all have needs and wants, but why do we let these people who are just downright ungrateful, unappreciative, insecure people walk in and out of our lives as they please?
We shouldn't. That's what I'm trying to say.
Think about it - lets say you have a friend, who constantly lets you down, is unreliable and is sometimes devious and malicious. What do we do with that friend? Most of us say SEE YA LATER. We don't put up with it, we rant and rave to our other friends, and most of the time we let that friend know that they are being a crappy person. So why can't we do that with people we are in relationships with? You could say, " oh well its different you cant compare the two". No its not really different at all. If someone is treating you like crap, chances are they are going to keep treating you like crap if you let them.
The reason i say this is because there has been a lot of this going around lately, from what i hear. Cut your losses my friends. Chances are you will be happier in the long run, and those people will not be.

Summer Days, Summer Hayze.

If you live in Hamilton Ontario, then you can relate to me when i refer to summer as Summer Hayze.
Our smoggie weather takes a toll on us when the summer heat hits. Of course, we're used to it. Outside vistors may not be, but they are aware when they enter smoggville.
But you would think, if you lived in Hamilton you would know to take all the necessary precautions of personal hygiene when the hot weather takes over the city. Its quite simple actually - if you know you are going to be taking the bus to work ( for example ) then you might want to shower that morning. Or at least pack on the deodorant for the sake of other people who are crammed on the bus. Theres barely room to breathe as it is... please don't make the breathing painful by smelling dumpster. If you know that its going to be a hot day, but you have to wear a suit to work - skip the jacket ! no one expects you to wear that anyway - they do sell dress shirts of breathable cotton, there is no need to be trekking to work in a full out suit.
Ladies who are self conscious about bare arms, legs, or any part of their body which causes them to wear parkas on these summer days. GET OVER IT. its hot okay - no ones going to blame you for wanting to keep cool. Chances are you don't look as bad as you think you look anyway!
Ladies who don't want to wear any clothes at all. PUT IT AWAY. nobody wants to see that.
The world would be a better, less smelly place if people would just take this into consideration.
Enjoy the weather!